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From the study of John 2:5

Range of meaning

"His mother". John refers to her only by this relationship (2:1, 3, 5, 12; 6:42; 19:25–27) and never as "Mary".

Against the English

English translations keep "his mother"; readers often mentally supply "Mary" from the other Gospels, which is correct historically but misses John's deliberate pattern.

Used elsewhere in the period

She appears in John only here at Cana and at the cross (19:25–27), where Jesus again addresses her as "Woman" and the "hour" has finally come. The two scenes frame his public career.

From the study of Matthew 12:50

Range of meaning

Mother; by extension, a woman honoured as a mother, or a source or origin.

Against the English

Straightforward. The force lies in where the word is placed, not its meaning.

Used elsewhere in the period

Honouring one's mother was a commandment (Exod 20:12), and Matthew's Jesus upholds it strongly (15:4–6). Deut 33:9 praises Levi for not 'acknowledging' father, mother and brothers when loyalty to God's covenant was at stake, an older precedent for putting God's claim above kinship.

From the study of John 19:26

Range of meaning

Mother and son as family roles with obligations attached. In Jewish and wider Mediterranean society, a son was expected to support and protect a widowed mother. This was how "honour your father and mother" (Exod 20:12) was applied in practice.

Against the English

English translations render these words straightforwardly. What modern readers can miss is how much a "son" meant in practice: food, a roof, legal protection and social standing.

Used elsewhere in the period

Sirach 3:12–16 urges care for an aging father. 1 Tim 5:4–8 requires children to provide for widowed mothers. Jesus attacks the evasion of this duty through "Corban" vows (Mark 7:10–13). Some later rabbinic and Hellenistic sources call care for parents among the weightiest commandments.