Hebrew word · H2545
חֲמוֹת
chamotah
mother-in-law
Husband's mother. In the Hebrew Bible it occurs almost only in Ruth (ten times) and in Micah 7:6, where 'a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law' is a sign of a society falling apart.
Appears 11 times in 10 verses of the Hebrew Old Testament. ·
What it means
mother-in-law, husband's mother
Abridged from Brown, Driver and Briggs, A Hebrew and English Lexicon of the Old Testament (1906), via STEPBible.org (CC BY 4.0).
In depth
- Range of meaning
Husband's mother. In the Hebrew Bible it occurs almost only in Ruth (ten times) and in Micah 7:6, where 'a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law' is a sign of a society falling apart.
- Against the English
'Mother-in-law' is accurate. Modern stereotypes about mothers-in-law are irrelevant here.
- Used elsewhere in the period
Micah 7:6 (quoted in Matthew 10:35 and Luke 12:53) treats harmony between a woman and her mother-in-law as the normal order, and conflict between them as a sign of breakdown.
- Range of meaning
Husband's mother. The word is used only in Ruth and Micah 7:6 (with the parallel Mic 7:6/Matt 10:35 tradition).
- Against the English
"Mother-in-law" is accurate. The narrator's constant repetition of it is a deliberate choice that English readers may skim past.
- Used elsewhere in the period
Ruth 1:14; 2:11, 18, 19, 23; 3:1, 6, 16, 17; Mic 7:6. In Micah, a daughter-in-law rising against her mother-in-law is a sign that society is falling apart. Ruth shows the opposite.
Similar words
Where it appears
Ruth · 10
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Ruth 1:14 לַחֲמוֹתָ֔הּ <to> mother-in-law her
Again they wept aloud, and Orpah kissed her mother-in-law goodbye, but Ruth clung to her.
Here: 'Her mother-in-law.' The word names the bond that made Naomi her family, and Orpah's husband's death has left that bond in doubt. She takes leave of Naomi as a mother-in-law, with full family courtesy.
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Ruth 2:11 חֲמוֹתֵ֔ךְ mother-in-law your
Boaz replied, “I have been made fully aware of all you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband, how you left your father and mother and the land of your birth, and how you came to a people you did not know before.
Here: “Your mother-in-law” (Naomi). The tie existed only through a husband who was now dead, which is what makes Ruth's continued loyalty notable.
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Ruth 2:18 חֲמוֹתָ֖הּ mother-in-law her
She picked up the grain and went into the town, where her mother-in-law saw what she had gleaned. And she brought out what she had saved from her meal and gave it to Naomi.
Here: 'Her mother-in-law.' The narrator keeps naming the women by their family tie rather than their names. That keeps the bond Ruth chose in 1:16–17 in front of the reader.
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Ruth 2:19 חֲמוֹתָ֜הּ לַחֲמוֹתָ֗הּ mother-in-law her, to mother-in-law her
Then her mother-in-law asked her, “Where did you glean today, and where did you work? Blessed be the man who noticed you.” So she told her mother-in-law where she had worked. “The name of the man I worked with today is Boaz,” she said.
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Ruth 2:23 חֲמוֹתָֽהּ׃ mother-in-law her
So Ruth stayed close to the servant girls of Boaz to glean grain until the barley and wheat harvests were finished. And she lived with her mother-in-law.
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Ruth 3:1 חֲמוֹתָ֑הּ mother-in-law her
One day Ruth’s mother-in-law Naomi said to her, “My daughter, should I not seek a resting place for you, that it may be well with you?
Here: A husband's mother. Naomi's son Mahlon is dead, yet the narrator keeps calling her Ruth's mother-in-law. The family bond still stands, and the coming plan depends on it: Naomi's kin are Ruth's kin.
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Ruth 3:6 חֲמוֹתָֽהּ׃ mother-in-law her
So she went down to the threshing floor and did everything her mother-in-law had instructed her to do.
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Ruth 3:16 חֲמוֹתָ֔הּ mother-in-law her
When Ruth returned to her mother-in-law, Naomi asked her, “How did it go, my daughter?” Then Ruth told her all that Boaz had done for her.
Here: “Her mother-in-law.” The book keeps using this tie, which has outlived the death of the son who created it. Ruth acts as a daughter of Naomi's household, not as a free agent.
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Ruth 3:17 חֲמוֹתֵֽךְ׃ mother-in-law your
And she said, “He gave me these six measures of barley, for he said, ‘Do not go back to your mother-in-law empty-handed.’”
Micah · 1
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Micah 7:6 בַּחֲמֹתָ֑הּ on mother-in-law her
For a son dishonors his father, a daughter rises against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. A man’s enemies are the members of his own household.
Here: 'Against her mother-in-law', her husband's mother, who ran the women's side of the household. The word appears in the Hebrew Bible only here and in Ruth, where daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are the model of loyalty.
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